Did I do something wrong?

I keep thinking... all the people I know that have studied in other countries with families who speak another language.. they come to a point where they've offended their family without meaning to. Different cultures and different languages especially make it very difficult to understand what is considered "strange" to do and what is simply not acceptable.

My family is super laid back so... i started to think I was never going to have a moment like this. Well, indirectly, i'm pretty sure I indirectly got my host sister in trouble. Up until this point i thought I was so great at understanding spanish... but when a Sevillano is yelling... its an entirely different language in itself.

So here goes. I woke up from my siesta and really had to pee (i drink way too much tinto de verano). My hostsister Alejandra was in the shower, but we have another bathroom in my abuelitos bedroom. Abuela was staring at me struggling with the decision at the door and when i turned to go to my room (i think she thought i was going to her room with the other bathroom..i think) she started rapidfire yelling at alejandra. From what I gathered, she was mad that Alejandra was showering in the middle of the day because if for any reason i needed the bathroom, id HAVE to use the other one... which she is embarrassed of because its "old and dirty".. which it really isn't. Later I asked Alejandra... what the hell did you do? Is she mad at me? To which she always responds (Alejandra is very sarcastic & has a "boca sucia"/dirty mouth)... "No es nada Jessi. Cono! Es una puta!"... which literally translated means "Jess, its nothing. Cunt. Shes a fucking bitch." I apologize for the language in the blog... shes the one with the mouth. not me. haha