
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
I'M GOING TO COPENHAGEN!!

Spanglish & my other top 29 fav languages.
So I was at el duende the other day (Not sure which day because el duende is FOR SURE my McClaren’s of Spainßfor my favorite HIMYM watchers) and I got into a philosophical conversation with a german girl. To describe her as a “german girl” is probably a limited term, since she explained to me that she isn’t fluent in any language because she’s moved around so much (Russia, Germany, France, Spain…and somehow also speaks English). She was trying to convince me that people don’t think in words, they sense something and automatically desire something else without having to use words in their own head. I’m thinking… hmm youz crazy. But today… I’m starting to think that its possible… not to have a language of the mind limited by words. It’s hard for me to think only in English or Spanish anymore. Especially with Alejandra. Abuelita says that Alejandra and I would be able to understand each other no matter what language we spoke because we’re “igual”/the same. We speak spanglish, and it is my favorite language…at the moment.
Being here makes me wonder if I’m ever going to be satisfied with one language. I wish I had the sense of satisfaction that anyone in Espana has. My abuelitos here? I don’t know how to explain their relationship. I feel as if “love” here… is a form of deep respect, rather than passion. It’s new to me, but I hope to learn as much from their relationship as I do from my parents. Perfect means different things in different languages. Imagine being able to understand multiple kinds of perfect? I think it is incredibly important, almost essential, if you want to become a good international negotiator.
Speaking of which….